Sunday, August 28, 2011

Day 282 - Genevieve says yes to the dress

Nothing particularly productive, however my toddler has found her dress!

My daughter and my maid-of-honors daughter were copying us and flipping through bridal magazines. Genevieve ended up getting really into it. :)

The link is relatively private and so can't be embedded. Click here to enjoy. :)

<3 your hippie bride

Saturday, August 27, 2011

Day 281 - Well that was easy

I'm hindu, David is agnostic. Booking a JOP was something I was not sure how to approach. We had originally wanted our friend to marry us. Only to discover that we live in the only province in Canada that no longer permits this. BOOOOOO
Today I bit my bottom lip, sent e-mails to several JOP's and one stuck. Apparently I needn't give a deposit nor sign a contract, I simply tell her I want her and she is mine. That makes me a tad nervous but I am certain closer to the day we'll have something in writing.....won't we? 

Friday, August 26, 2011

Day 280 - Invitations almost in the mail

So after much cutting, pasting, printing, sticking, pasting, cutting and address hunting the invitations are completed and ready to mail....well.... once I get them in envelopes. *whoops* 

Tuesday, August 23, 2011

Day 277 - Hair, hair everywhere!

I'm sure you already know... I'm a hippie. As such, I would like if my wedding would reflect on my style as much as possible while still allowing for me to be a tad bit of a princess too.

Today I browsed hairstyles. I can't decide on exactly what I want done, however, I seem to have gathered quite the collection of similar samples to work with.

smaller flowers, and daisies instead of roses
love the tossed look to this
 More below the fold

Monday, August 22, 2011

Day 276 - Fun ideas!

I seem to just be running around gathering ideas lately. Mostly fun things for the guests and photography areas. 
This one idea popped up on pinterest and although I don't yet have an account I snatched the photo. 
The idea is a scavenger hunt for your guests, I very well may do this.


Day 276 - Take a photo, it lasts longer


Had our engagement photos taken today by Shawn of Artistic Lens Photography. Although I am aware he has a website it is still under construction. I will update with one later.
The morning started off a bit rough, we had foolishly stayed up until 2am watching old episodes of The New Adventures of Superman. I shot awake at 8am and then 9am both times concerned that we should wake. 9:30 work started with a loud annoying buzz at the door and the work phone calls had been ongoing since 8:30 so we gave up on sleeping in and the three of us had breakfast in bed. A quick text to the photographer to solidify times and we were off. I was barefoot for the entire photo shoot, of course, feeding into my hippie ways.






 We had 3 locations selected for our photo shoot. First was the parking lot where it all "began". This is the apartment complex where I lived when David first came to visit me in the city. It is where I was living when we started dating, when he moved in with me and where he would subsequently propose to me years later. So as much as it is only a parking lot to the naked eye, to us it is a starting point.
 
The second location was a drive down the road, it is a look off over the harbour.

 Such a beautiful spot where we would sometimes go to relax together. We had taken many friends there and had ourselves discovered it's existence quite by accident on a road trip one day. The location itself wasn't as meaningful as the other two but it is such a beautiful spot with so much opportunity for beautiful photographs that we simply had to go there.






On our way to the third and final location our poor photographer had a bit of car trouble. This resulted in an adventure addition as we abandoned the car with David and sought out water to help cool the engine. Once this was done it was off to our final destination.

The final destination is the most meaningful of all and is in fact where we intend to have our wedding photographs taken. It is the location we went to the day I knew we would make it as a couple. I had been through the ringer with a previous relationship and had decided to never again date. He had been coming around most days of the week and had therefore stirred up conversation with many friends as to our future relationship. I had shrugged all these off until this day, March 23rd. I had worked that day and the whole time at work I was thinking about all the chores I had to do when I returned home. Laundry, dishes, toilet bowl, tub, carpet, make supper etc. etc. He showed up at the end of my shift to drive me home. I should have known then that something was up. He seemed so happy. I was tired already, thinking about all the chores that waited for me at home. I came inside and went straight to my room where I found my bed made, my laundry done and put away and the floor vacumed. I was shocked, turned on my heel to see him smirking. I peeked over his shoulder and the dishes were done, even the pots. I returned my gaze to him and he smiled, "I even washed the toilet!"
I stood there stunned....what was I to do with this sudden amount of free time? We decided on a roadtrip and ended up at the hill where we took video and pictures of each other goofing off.


We ended up with one, most meaningful picture. Realize that at this point we had not kissed, we were not dating, he was spending night after endless night by my side and although I kept telling him I'd be single forever...he just wouldn't leave. It was such a beautiful day I decided to get a photograph of us looking out over the city. I had him stand so I could position the camera to adjust for his height. Set the timer, ran by his side and at the last moment he put his arm around me. It caught me off guard at first but my walls were being tore down and at that point I knew.

We return to that location every year on March 23rd to take another photograph in celebration of another wonderful year together. Although our anniversary is April 23rd this spot has been monumental in our relationship.

2007

2008

2009

2010

2011

2011 
2011
 Although we didn't go to the exact spot where we take our March 23rd photo due to tourists we did have our photographs taken elsewhere on the hill which is all I had intended anyway.
The next time we go there will be our last March 23rd before we are married. So excited!


 And of course a quick costume change before we were done. :)

There you have it, our engagement photos. Only a sprinkling of them of course. 

Sunday, August 21, 2011

Day 275 - Print, cut, paste, bedazzle, sparkle sparkle

Print, cut, paste...arrange, paste, dry, bedazzle, sparkle sparkle...envelope, slide, address, lick, stamp...send...repeat 50 times!
I have 20 invites made and ready for the mailing. Going to send them in spurts so that I don't lose them as they are made.
This makes it so real...maybe I should hurry and get that venue deposit in. :p

<3 your hippie bride.

Saturday, August 20, 2011

Day 274 - Legal...tender and fine

Well, hubby-to-be wins! After encountering some very near problems last night I am FINALLY updating my expired ID...yeah...expired since 2009....and still hailing from a different province. I guess I'm stuck here for good now. *sigh*

I had planned on doing it regardless as it is a necessary component in acquiring a marriage license. But last night when I was almost not allowed to go into the club due to my expired license.... well time to change up.

And as fun as last night was it was so nice to come home and climb into my best friends arms. Then today I sent out our first wedding invitation!

<3 your hippie bride

Friday, August 19, 2011

Day 273 - SIZE 4?! No way!

Went in as part of my day out with Jenny we stopped by to try on the wedding dress again. It is a lot bigger on me than it was before. Whoops. But it felt amazing! When the consultant put the clip on it to tighten it up properly I was so petite! THAT is the size I want to be on my wedding day! I can hold off on the last 9.4 lbs for post wedding. I felt so beautiful! So ....perfectly weddable. 

After that we went to look at dresses for bridesmaids. While in the dress shop I was encouraged to try on a few dresses. I grabbed a size 8 and found it fit alright. The clerk looked at me and said, "Well that looks alright but let's try this dress *gesturing to another dress* in a 4." I laughed so hard, "There is no way I'm a 4!!" 

Guess what...I was wrong!!!!!

Trying on multiple size 4's were an immediate result of this discovery! 


 <3 your smaller hippie bride! 

Thursday, August 18, 2011

Day 272 - Maid of honor celebration

This weekend promises to be productive. Today is Jenny's birthday and we are to going to take her out to her first club to celebrate on the weekend. To prepare for my weekend with my maid of honor I have acquired lots of material required to complete the invitations and prepared myself to get all dressed up for a night on the town afterwards.

Promises to be fun and productive!

<3 your hippie bride


Monday, August 15, 2011

Day 269

Fortunately decided on my centrepieces and with the help of kijiji I was able to save $50 on them.
Now to get the rest of the parts to put them together. The frustrating aspect will be the candle holders. I think they are going to be difficult to track down. But fortunately I have 342 days left to find them all.

<3 your diy hippie bride

Friday, August 12, 2011

Day 266 - Who will marry me?

Today I am in a teary-eyed bridal mood today. As things have come together and calmed down I have gone back to simply being excited to marry my best friend. I love my husband-to-be and I am so excited to see the look on his face as I walk down the aisle towards him in 346 days!

Today, inspired by the matrimony of it all, I am comparing officiants and their fees. Not much to compare since they are all strangers to me and only names. As a result I went through the list and picked the officiants with the coolest sounding names.

I found this part interesting though. I received a few quotes of their cost from several J.O.P's which varied only slightly. The final e-mail I received was the lowest cost and the quote was accompanied with a statement that the cost is set by the Department of Justice. For their honesty I decided on them as honesty is important to me. This also saves me $200 from some of the other options.

<3 your hippie bride.

Monday, August 8, 2011

Day 262 - And it begins!

Today, with all of the necessary components in place I began printing and constructing the wedding invitations. The first two or three were .... not as attractive as the rest. After a while you get accustomed and develop your own system.
The most important part of course is ensuring everyone's personal RSVP ID is accurate as they are to RSVP online using it. Pretty exciting to get these started!

<3 your hippie bride